Have you ever found it embarrassing or even uncomfortable to talk about sex with your partner? Well it’s not uncommon for us to feel some sort of way about this, whether you are dating or married. I have listed below some ways to open up the discussion the next time you are communicating your needs in bed.
Be friendly when communicating about sex, have manners; saying please never hurt anyone!
Talk about what you want more instead of what you don’t want. For instance, say something like ” I like you on top” rather than ” I don’t like being on top”.
Take your partner hands and stroke yourself. Whisper ” like this”. Actually whisper a lot, it’s incredibly sexy.
If something feels good say so
If you say ” don’t do that” ADD ” do this instead”
Unless something awful just happened ( like the condom broke) save the serious talk until after sex.
Hopefully this will open the door to a new discovery of your sexual needs. Sex should always be safe and comfortable. ” No” is still a valuable option.