You Look Hot!!!!

As a long-term couple you know each other inside and out and have seen each other looking at your best and your worst. But although it seem unnecessary, in fact you should never give up courting your mate. You should never reach a point where you think ” I don’t need to attract her anymore”. Love is blind, true, but love also thrives on beauty, sexuality, and physical attraction. 

Putting time and effort into your appearance is worthwhile and necessary for a sizzling, sexy relationship. When you go out on a date, think about what you are going to wear. Spend time in the mirror. Have your hair or nails done. Wear a bra that boosts your cleavage. Put on a shirt you know she likes and spray on some cologne. Make sure that your body simply cries out for a kiss goodnight…..and maybe much more! Your appearance should signal that the night is special.

No matter how long you have been together, dating should still be an essential part of your relationship. It helps you to stay bonded with your spouse, both emotionally and physically, and it keeps your relationship vital, fun, and intimate. So make the commitment to go steady and no matter what just enjoy yourselves!!!! Until next time……….

Mind Blowing Sex

Try these moves for mind-blowing sex.

There’s nothing worse than being in a relationship with a great guy where only one of you enjoys “getting it on.” Nine times out of ten, your man will reach climax before you do, leaving you bored and unsatisfied. That’s why I want to give my eight best positions from the Bad Girl’s Bible for reaching climaxing with your man.

 

 

1. “Cowgirl.” This is probably the easiest and simplest sex position to reach orgasm with your man. To perform the cowgirl, he needs to lie down on his back. You then straddle him on your knees while facing him. When you are in this position, you have a lot of control, which means that you can lean forwards or backwards or side-to-side to change his angle of entry. You can also change the depth at which he’s penetrating you by pushing yourself up with your legs or lowering yourself down onto him. You’ll find that cowgirl is one of the best sex positions for clitoral orgasms — vaginal ones are a little trickier.

2. “High Impact.” This is a variation of the position that I just covered above. To try it, your man will still be lieing down on his back, but instead of straddling him on your knees, you are going to be squatting down onto him and using your hands to steady yourself. You will be holding yourself just above him; you won’t be sitting down on him. To change angles, you can lean forwards and put your hands on his stomach to balance yourself or you can lean backwards to put your hands behind you. You will be pretty much holding yourself in this position while your man starts rapidly trusting in and out of you with short strokes. If you lean backwards while in this position, your man will be hitting your G spot.

3. “G Spot Sniper.” The name might be a bit of a giveaway! To perform this position, you need lie on your back while your man is on his knees. He then grabs your hips and lifts them upwards off the bed. Your feet should now be pointing towards the ceiling and your legs should straight. Your man then enters you. He just needs to thrust so that the head of his penis is hitting the top wall of your vagina — allegedly where your G spot is. To accomplish this properly, he needs to make sure that his thrusts are shallow, not deep. Click here to see a visual demonstration of this position.

4. “The Lotus.” This position, while incredibly intimate, also makes it easy for you to orgasm. To perform it, your man must first sit down in a yoga pose with legs crossed. You sit down on his lap facing him, wrapping your legs and arms around him. You can then slowly grind up and down on him, stimulating your clit. To be perfectly honest, the lotus is one of the more difficult sex positions listed in these eight, but the deep, bonding intimacy you experience only makes it worth it. 

5. “Spooning.” Spooning is a great sex position for close, sensual sex with your man. To spoon, you both need to lie on your sides facing in the same direction with him behind you. He then just needs to slowly thrust in and out with a consistent rhythm. While doing this, he can reach around and start gently rubbing and massaging your clitoris with his fingers, bringing you to orgasm.

6. “The Anvil.” If you like being dominated by your man during sex, this position is for you. To perform the anvil, lie down on your back. Next, raise your legs in the air and use your arms to pull them back towards yourself. Your man will be on his knees and will lean right over you. You can then rest your ankles on his shoulders, so that he is pushing them back on top of you. In this position, he will be able to penetrate you deeper than you could have imagined.7. “The CAT.” The coital alignment technique is very similar to regular missionary sex, but with a few variations. He needs to remain quite deep inside you while you push your pubic bone against him. Then instead of thrusting so much, he needs to grind on you, giving you a lot of stimulation to your clitoris. This makes the coital alignment technique one of the best sex positions for having a clitoral orgasm. It’s also really easy to transition to this position from missionary.

8. “The Jockey.” This one is easy for a woman: just lie back, relax and enjoy it. To perform the jockey sex position, you need lie on your stomach with your rear end raised. Your man then straddles you on his knees and enters you. In this position, your man can penetrate you with a lot of force. This is great for those who climax from really passionate or even rough sex.

Building Your Wedding Party

You probably already have some idea who you’re going to ask to be your bridesmaids, groomsmen, maid of honor, and best man. You might be trying to narrow down your long list of candidates. Here, I’m going to share some of the newest trends that today’s wedding couples are using to make their weddings more special to them.

* Have two best men and maid of honor, if the groom and bride can’t select between say a brother/sister and best friend.

* The groom and bride can ask mother/father to be maid of honor or best man.

* Skip the lineup of bridesmaids and groomsmen in favor of just a maid of honor and a best man for simpler, smaller weddings. You can also do this with a bigger wedding on a budget.

* Have just the best man and maid of honor, and then a collection of adorable, much loved children in matching flower girl dresses for the girls and matching tuxes for the boys. This is a way to include all of your nieces, nephews, godchildren, the kids you baby sit for, your students, any children who have a big place in your heart!

More tips tomorrow…..

Romance…A Humans Love!

In most animal species, lust has it’s way, mating occurs, and the two individuals go their separate ways. But for humans it’s very different. The initial attraction is the trigger that leads into one of the most wonderful and sought- after experiences of life; ROMANCE! This is the passionate, all- consuming emotion that makes you feel on top of the world when everything is going well, and throws you into depths of despair when love is thwarted, unrequited, or rejected. It is for romance that lovers swim across oceans, scale mountains, and slay dragons to impress, delight, or simply be with the beloved. It’s more powerful than lust. People don’t kill themselves for sex, but they will for a broken romance….no offense to anyone! Love is not just a feeling, it’s actually a goal-directed drive that affects our behavior and thinking by improving performance where the lover is involved.

My Husband

I experienced love last night

took all my breath and suffocated my every thought

drained my blood and flushed my system with insanity

LOVE never felt or tasted this good

even if it’s not real, let us pretend we exist as this

your every emotion I felt pressed inside me

I drank your every word

love is what I experienced

when you kissed me there

love is what I needed, when you wrapped your tongue in my words

nothing tangible, just you in my head

love didn’t know me until you

– KR-

You can have it your way!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you ever found it embarrassing or even uncomfortable to talk about sex with your partner? Well it’s not uncommon for us to feel some sort of way about this, whether you are dating or married. I have listed below some ways to open up the discussion the next time you are communicating your needs in bed.

Be friendly when communicating about sex, have manners; saying please never hurt anyone!

Talk about what you want more instead of what you don’t want. For instance, say something like ” I like you on top” rather than ” I don’t like being on top”.

Take your partner hands and stroke yourself. Whisper ” like this”. Actually whisper a lot, it’s incredibly sexy.

If something feels good say so

If you say ” don’t do that” ADD  ” do this instead”

Unless something awful just happened ( like the condom broke) save the serious talk until after sex.

Hopefully this will open the door to a new discovery of your sexual needs. Sex should always be safe and comfortable. ” No” is still a valuable option.