Does Size Matter?

This is where you are expecting me to say no, the size of the penis doesn’t matter very reassuringly. But the truth is: it does matter. Whether too big or too small( remembering that these are relative terms), the size of the penis can interfere with optimal pleasure for both partners. I can still be reassuring, however: whatever the size, the issues that arise are totally solvable.

USE THE SUGGESTIONS BELOW!

If your partner is TOO BIG:

* Use positions that keep penetration shallower, and positions that give you control

* Use plenty of lubricant

* Take your time, and make sure you are fully relaxed and aroused before you begin intercourse

IF YOUR PARTNER IS too small

* Put a lot of emphasis on foreplay

*Choose positions that optimize clitoral stimulation

* Use the squeeze method- the actual squeeze portion during intercourse

with these tricks up your sleeve, it won’t matter that size matters.

 

You can have it your way!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you ever found it embarrassing or even uncomfortable to talk about sex with your partner? Well it’s not uncommon for us to feel some sort of way about this, whether you are dating or married. I have listed below some ways to open up the discussion the next time you are communicating your needs in bed.

Be friendly when communicating about sex, have manners; saying please never hurt anyone!

Talk about what you want more instead of what you don’t want. For instance, say something like ” I like you on top” rather than ” I don’t like being on top”.

Take your partner hands and stroke yourself. Whisper ” like this”. Actually whisper a lot, it’s incredibly sexy.

If something feels good say so

If you say ” don’t do that” ADD  ” do this instead”

Unless something awful just happened ( like the condom broke) save the serious talk until after sex.

Hopefully this will open the door to a new discovery of your sexual needs. Sex should always be safe and comfortable. ” No” is still a valuable option.