Mind Blowing Sex

Try these moves for mind-blowing sex.

There’s nothing worse than being in a relationship with a great guy where only one of you enjoys “getting it on.” Nine times out of ten, your man will reach climax before you do, leaving you bored and unsatisfied. That’s why I want to give my eight best positions from the Bad Girl’s Bible for reaching climaxing with your man.



1. “Cowgirl.” This is probably the easiest and simplest sex position to reach orgasm with your man. To perform the cowgirl, he needs to lie down on his back. You then straddle him on your knees while facing him. When you are in this position, you have a lot of control, which means that you can lean forwards or backwards or side-to-side to change his angle of entry. You can also change the depth at which he’s penetrating you by pushing yourself up with your legs or lowering yourself down onto him. You’ll find that cowgirl is one of the best sex positions for clitoral orgasms — vaginal ones are a little trickier.

2. “High Impact.” This is a variation of the position that I just covered above. To try it, your man will still be lieing down on his back, but instead of straddling him on your knees, you are going to be squatting down onto him and using your hands to steady yourself. You will be holding yourself just above him; you won’t be sitting down on him. To change angles, you can lean forwards and put your hands on his stomach to balance yourself or you can lean backwards to put your hands behind you. You will be pretty much holding yourself in this position while your man starts rapidly trusting in and out of you with short strokes. If you lean backwards while in this position, your man will be hitting your G spot.

3. “G Spot Sniper.” The name might be a bit of a giveaway! To perform this position, you need lie on your back while your man is on his knees. He then grabs your hips and lifts them upwards off the bed. Your feet should now be pointing towards the ceiling and your legs should straight. Your man then enters you. He just needs to thrust so that the head of his penis is hitting the top wall of your vagina — allegedly where your G spot is. To accomplish this properly, he needs to make sure that his thrusts are shallow, not deep. Click here to see a visual demonstration of this position.

4. “The Lotus.” This position, while incredibly intimate, also makes it easy for you to orgasm. To perform it, your man must first sit down in a yoga pose with legs crossed. You sit down on his lap facing him, wrapping your legs and arms around him. You can then slowly grind up and down on him, stimulating your clit. To be perfectly honest, the lotus is one of the more difficult sex positions listed in these eight, but the deep, bonding intimacy you experience only makes it worth it. 

5. “Spooning.” Spooning is a great sex position for close, sensual sex with your man. To spoon, you both need to lie on your sides facing in the same direction with him behind you. He then just needs to slowly thrust in and out with a consistent rhythm. While doing this, he can reach around and start gently rubbing and massaging your clitoris with his fingers, bringing you to orgasm.

6. “The Anvil.” If you like being dominated by your man during sex, this position is for you. To perform the anvil, lie down on your back. Next, raise your legs in the air and use your arms to pull them back towards yourself. Your man will be on his knees and will lean right over you. You can then rest your ankles on his shoulders, so that he is pushing them back on top of you. In this position, he will be able to penetrate you deeper than you could have imagined.7. “The CAT.” The coital alignment technique is very similar to regular missionary sex, but with a few variations. He needs to remain quite deep inside you while you push your pubic bone against him. Then instead of thrusting so much, he needs to grind on you, giving you a lot of stimulation to your clitoris. This makes the coital alignment technique one of the best sex positions for having a clitoral orgasm. It’s also really easy to transition to this position from missionary.

8. “The Jockey.” This one is easy for a woman: just lie back, relax and enjoy it. To perform the jockey sex position, you need lie on your stomach with your rear end raised. Your man then straddles you on his knees and enters you. In this position, your man can penetrate you with a lot of force. This is great for those who climax from really passionate or even rough sex.

Sexual Customs Fact or???

The United States has many laws governing sexual behavior more than all the European nations combined. The only legally sanctioned sexual act in the United States is private heterosexual or homosexual intercourse between married adults. Some societies have no words for indecent, obscene, or impure in their vocabularies. The topic of sex is not considered shameful or embarrassing. Boys in Mangia are given sexual instructions and taught sexual techniques and various coital positions, breast stimulations, cunnilingus, and methods displaying ejaculation so their female partners can experience orgasms. The inhabitants of Bali and India have no elaborate practices of seduction. If sex is desired, one needs simply to ask. The Aweikoma of Brazil feel that since eating and intercourse involve body orifices, the same term is used for both activities. Tinquian people of the Pacific Islands do not kiss, instead, they place their lips close to their partners’ lips and rapidly inhale. The National Center Of Health reports that 70 percent of married women have had premarital sex and that 95 percent of American women have had sex by the age of 25. Americans are exposed to some form of sexual innuendo about 12 times an hour or every 5 mins.

Sexual Stimulation Or Not

The erotic, sexual connection. It lives, it dies, and it is reborn. Or not. What aspect of a relationship is more mysterious than this? Where do trust and anger and adoration and need live most directly between you and your partner? 

Perhaps we marry for romance. Perhaps we marry for security. Perhaps we marry to start a family. Perhaps we marry because it is time to do so. Perhaps we marry to show up our closest friends. Perhaps we marry because we have found our soul mate. Ultimately we end up in the bed naked with the person we have married, no matter what got us there and no matter what we imagine marriage to be about. Then what?

Over time you and your partner will undoubtedly notice that your levels of desire don’t always match. You want to, he doesn’t. You are in the mood for something wild and aggressive when he wants to linger and go slow. How do we meet in the middle? How do we even know what our partners are in the mood for? Do we dare ask? Do we offer silent clues? If you already developed your own language, some combination of talking, gesturing, do you like the way the communications go? 

In a new relationship, sexuality is experienced elegantly or inelegantly making love. As you live together and learn each other, you see your partners sensual nature expressed in other ways like the careful way he prepares a meal or the sweet way he cares for the kids. All expressions of erotic connection to living and life. As time passes you remain with each other, the initial sexual intensity can become beautifully displaced from the bedroom into every aspect of your lives together. Being together becomes erotic. 

I want you to experience love on a greater scale. A sexual desire not felt by many. In order to do this you have to dig deep. While answering the questions I proposed above, feel free to be poetic, shy, embarrassed or definite. Try to speak accurately, as earnestly as you can, as much as you are able. Go slow. Help each other out. Get down with your truth. Find satisfaction and help your partner find satisfaction.

Try this exercise, it does wonders in and out of the bedroom 😉