You Look Hot!!!!

As a long-term couple you know each other inside and out and have seen each other looking at your best and your worst. But although it seem unnecessary, in fact you should never give up courting your mate. You should never reach a point where you think ” I don’t need to attract her anymore”. Love is blind, true, but love also thrives on beauty, sexuality, and physical attraction. 

Putting time and effort into your appearance is worthwhile and necessary for a sizzling, sexy relationship. When you go out on a date, think about what you are going to wear. Spend time in the mirror. Have your hair or nails done. Wear a bra that boosts your cleavage. Put on a shirt you know she likes and spray on some cologne. Make sure that your body simply cries out for a kiss goodnight…..and maybe much more! Your appearance should signal that the night is special.

No matter how long you have been together, dating should still be an essential part of your relationship. It helps you to stay bonded with your spouse, both emotionally and physically, and it keeps your relationship vital, fun, and intimate. So make the commitment to go steady and no matter what just enjoy yourselves!!!! Until next time……….

Words for today……keep it sexy!!!!!!

Take care of your appearance don’t let standards slide simply because you’re in a long-term relationship and you will automatically feel sexier. Brush your hair and wash your face, even for a weekend lounging on the couch. Maintaining an air of sexiness when you live together can be challenging, but to create chemistry you need to treat your partner like a lover not a roommate.
Wear attractive underwear, and keep your skin moisturizer, your nails clean and trimmed, and your hair healthy and well groomed. Eat healthy and exercise to keep your body in shape(working out together is quite sexy and invigorating). Make the best of your appearance and looking after yourself will help to boost your self esteem and make you feel sexier. Until next time……..

Thanks to all my followers xoxo

Stand Out Of The CROWD

It’s good to be different. No one ever stood out in a flock.- Lynn Harless

Peer pressure is a common theme for teenagers but it can also be an issue for many adults. While we all strive to be individuals, we also feel the need to fit in. Are you trying to keep up with the Joneses? Is the designer bag or shoes you splurged on a status symbol for others to take note of, or is it a special investment that means something to you and puts a punctuation mark on your personality? While it’s natural for friends to have common tastes, you run the risk of getting lost in a crowd, not having your own voice, and not attracting what you may really really want. It’s important to be true to who you are and identify the difference between conforming and having the courage to be quirky. You don’t want to be a mirror image of anyone else. You deserve your own spotlight! Stop stressing about what’s wrong with you and celebrate all the good things about yourself. Remember what works for him/her May not work for you!!!! Stay confident, until next time……

Mind Blowing Sex

Try these moves for mind-blowing sex.

There’s nothing worse than being in a relationship with a great guy where only one of you enjoys “getting it on.” Nine times out of ten, your man will reach climax before you do, leaving you bored and unsatisfied. That’s why I want to give my eight best positions from the Bad Girl’s Bible for reaching climaxing with your man.

 

 

1. “Cowgirl.” This is probably the easiest and simplest sex position to reach orgasm with your man. To perform the cowgirl, he needs to lie down on his back. You then straddle him on your knees while facing him. When you are in this position, you have a lot of control, which means that you can lean forwards or backwards or side-to-side to change his angle of entry. You can also change the depth at which he’s penetrating you by pushing yourself up with your legs or lowering yourself down onto him. You’ll find that cowgirl is one of the best sex positions for clitoral orgasms — vaginal ones are a little trickier.

2. “High Impact.” This is a variation of the position that I just covered above. To try it, your man will still be lieing down on his back, but instead of straddling him on your knees, you are going to be squatting down onto him and using your hands to steady yourself. You will be holding yourself just above him; you won’t be sitting down on him. To change angles, you can lean forwards and put your hands on his stomach to balance yourself or you can lean backwards to put your hands behind you. You will be pretty much holding yourself in this position while your man starts rapidly trusting in and out of you with short strokes. If you lean backwards while in this position, your man will be hitting your G spot.

3. “G Spot Sniper.” The name might be a bit of a giveaway! To perform this position, you need lie on your back while your man is on his knees. He then grabs your hips and lifts them upwards off the bed. Your feet should now be pointing towards the ceiling and your legs should straight. Your man then enters you. He just needs to thrust so that the head of his penis is hitting the top wall of your vagina — allegedly where your G spot is. To accomplish this properly, he needs to make sure that his thrusts are shallow, not deep. Click here to see a visual demonstration of this position.

4. “The Lotus.” This position, while incredibly intimate, also makes it easy for you to orgasm. To perform it, your man must first sit down in a yoga pose with legs crossed. You sit down on his lap facing him, wrapping your legs and arms around him. You can then slowly grind up and down on him, stimulating your clit. To be perfectly honest, the lotus is one of the more difficult sex positions listed in these eight, but the deep, bonding intimacy you experience only makes it worth it. 

5. “Spooning.” Spooning is a great sex position for close, sensual sex with your man. To spoon, you both need to lie on your sides facing in the same direction with him behind you. He then just needs to slowly thrust in and out with a consistent rhythm. While doing this, he can reach around and start gently rubbing and massaging your clitoris with his fingers, bringing you to orgasm.

6. “The Anvil.” If you like being dominated by your man during sex, this position is for you. To perform the anvil, lie down on your back. Next, raise your legs in the air and use your arms to pull them back towards yourself. Your man will be on his knees and will lean right over you. You can then rest your ankles on his shoulders, so that he is pushing them back on top of you. In this position, he will be able to penetrate you deeper than you could have imagined.7. “The CAT.” The coital alignment technique is very similar to regular missionary sex, but with a few variations. He needs to remain quite deep inside you while you push your pubic bone against him. Then instead of thrusting so much, he needs to grind on you, giving you a lot of stimulation to your clitoris. This makes the coital alignment technique one of the best sex positions for having a clitoral orgasm. It’s also really easy to transition to this position from missionary.

8. “The Jockey.” This one is easy for a woman: just lie back, relax and enjoy it. To perform the jockey sex position, you need lie on your stomach with your rear end raised. Your man then straddles you on his knees and enters you. In this position, your man can penetrate you with a lot of force. This is great for those who climax from really passionate or even rough sex.

Does Size Matter?

This is where you are expecting me to say no, the size of the penis doesn’t matter very reassuringly. But the truth is: it does matter. Whether too big or too small( remembering that these are relative terms), the size of the penis can interfere with optimal pleasure for both partners. I can still be reassuring, however: whatever the size, the issues that arise are totally solvable.

USE THE SUGGESTIONS BELOW!

If your partner is TOO BIG:

* Use positions that keep penetration shallower, and positions that give you control

* Use plenty of lubricant

* Take your time, and make sure you are fully relaxed and aroused before you begin intercourse

IF YOUR PARTNER IS too small

* Put a lot of emphasis on foreplay

*Choose positions that optimize clitoral stimulation

* Use the squeeze method- the actual squeeze portion during intercourse

with these tricks up your sleeve, it won’t matter that size matters.

 

Sexual Stimulation Or Not

The erotic, sexual connection. It lives, it dies, and it is reborn. Or not. What aspect of a relationship is more mysterious than this? Where do trust and anger and adoration and need live most directly between you and your partner? 

Perhaps we marry for romance. Perhaps we marry for security. Perhaps we marry to start a family. Perhaps we marry because it is time to do so. Perhaps we marry to show up our closest friends. Perhaps we marry because we have found our soul mate. Ultimately we end up in the bed naked with the person we have married, no matter what got us there and no matter what we imagine marriage to be about. Then what?

Over time you and your partner will undoubtedly notice that your levels of desire don’t always match. You want to, he doesn’t. You are in the mood for something wild and aggressive when he wants to linger and go slow. How do we meet in the middle? How do we even know what our partners are in the mood for? Do we dare ask? Do we offer silent clues? If you already developed your own language, some combination of talking, gesturing, do you like the way the communications go? 

In a new relationship, sexuality is experienced elegantly or inelegantly making love. As you live together and learn each other, you see your partners sensual nature expressed in other ways like the careful way he prepares a meal or the sweet way he cares for the kids. All expressions of erotic connection to living and life. As time passes you remain with each other, the initial sexual intensity can become beautifully displaced from the bedroom into every aspect of your lives together. Being together becomes erotic. 

I want you to experience love on a greater scale. A sexual desire not felt by many. In order to do this you have to dig deep. While answering the questions I proposed above, feel free to be poetic, shy, embarrassed or definite. Try to speak accurately, as earnestly as you can, as much as you are able. Go slow. Help each other out. Get down with your truth. Find satisfaction and help your partner find satisfaction.

Try this exercise, it does wonders in and out of the bedroom 😉

Aging!

Aging is not a disease, although many people think it is. The good news is that premature aging doesn’t have to happen. While no magic elixir exists to reverse the process, research has shown that certain nutrients can help to slow the onset of visible signs of aging, can prevent many disorders, and can extend life expectancy.

Aging Juicing Recipes

* Beauty Fountain

small handful of parsley, handful of spinach, 5 carrots with greens removed, and 1/2 apple.

* Silky Complexion

2 slices pineapple with skin, 1/2 cucumber, and 1/2 apple with seeds.

 

* Facial Express

1/2 cantaloupe with skin

 

* Green Machine

3 broccoli buds, 1 garlic clove, 4 carrots with greens removed, 1 tomato, 2 stalks celery, 1/2 green pepper.

 

IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS PLEASE COMMENT BELOW!

Thanks guys! Until next time…..

You can have it your way!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you ever found it embarrassing or even uncomfortable to talk about sex with your partner? Well it’s not uncommon for us to feel some sort of way about this, whether you are dating or married. I have listed below some ways to open up the discussion the next time you are communicating your needs in bed.

Be friendly when communicating about sex, have manners; saying please never hurt anyone!

Talk about what you want more instead of what you don’t want. For instance, say something like ” I like you on top” rather than ” I don’t like being on top”.

Take your partner hands and stroke yourself. Whisper ” like this”. Actually whisper a lot, it’s incredibly sexy.

If something feels good say so

If you say ” don’t do that” ADD  ” do this instead”

Unless something awful just happened ( like the condom broke) save the serious talk until after sex.

Hopefully this will open the door to a new discovery of your sexual needs. Sex should always be safe and comfortable. ” No” is still a valuable option.